This site April 19 hearing, if I say the number of shoes, will affect the child's sense of well-being, no more than 3 pairs of shoes, the child's happiest, you will feel very absurd. Yes, I thought so before, but later I discovered that this seems to be a "little thing". In fact, it is very reasonable!
Do not believe, you think about it back, in this material rich era, do you think the child's happiness, when you were a pair of shoes when you were wearing to break when strong?
Probably not, the former barrenness of materialism can still be unbridled, rarely seen in today's children! So why is this happening? Let's take a look at the professional analysis of psychologists!
First, the more you choose, the harder your child will be!
In the park, a young boy was swinging quietly, but he saw no one on the slide. He ran to slide; he saw the child next to the seesaw walk away, and the boy rushed to the seesaw again...
At this time, a young girl came to swing, and the little boy saw that he rushed to the swing and would not let her play. The little girl refused, and the little boy pushed her. The little boy's mother was angry and yelling: "Eating in a bowl, watching the pot, are you greedy?"
However, is the boy really greedy? No! But when there are too many choices, it is very difficult for a child to get 100% happiness from various choices.
While swinging, the child may think "I waited to slide down the slide"; I saw the seesaw when I was on the slide, and I played the idea of ​​seesaw; but when I saw someone playing the swing, the child suddenly remembered the swing.
Too many choices distract the child's attention, which in turn leads to a significant reduction in the child's happiness and a decrease in happiness.
We all know that children are actually very easy to satisfy. When they can choose not to have so many things, then no matter what they play, they are more likely to enjoy the joy of one thing because they concentrate.
Second, the more choices, the lower the child's concentration!
The psychologist Barry Schwartz did an experiment:
The children were randomly divided into two groups of paintings. The first group of children selected one from the three pens, and the second group selected one of 24 groups. The result of the experiment is that the second group of children's paintings is much worse than the first group.
Subsequently, the psychologist asked the children to choose one of their favorite pens, and then persuade the children to give up the "favorite pen" in exchange for another gift. As a result, the second group of children is more likely to give up their chosen pen.
We often think that the more substances we provide to our children, the happier our children are, but the opposite is often the case! Too many choices will make children confusing in front of their choices. They neither know what they really like, but they do not know what they like. Understand treasure.
Third, how to help children avoid over-selection and enhance their sense of well-being?
01 toys are not too much, just good:
Too many toys not only distract children, but also adversely affect children’s mental development. Psychologists believe that the best children's toys are five: less than five, the child is easy to inferiority; more than five children easily distracted, limiting creativity.
However, when there are not many toys, the children are more likely to focus on their favorite toys within a range of choices, and study and ponder over and over again to create new ways of play. The value of toys is truly maximized!
Some parents will tangled in the end to the children what kind of 5? Personal advice to retain the assembled toys (simple style, gameplay is changeable), sports toys (fun, promote motor development), graffiti class (to play with children's imagination), plush (Children's first playmate), musical toys.
02 clothes do not be greedy, less and fine is the best choice:
Mothers who see good-looking children's clothing tend to lose their resistance. They can't help but buy and buy their children. But when you see clothes full of clothes, you really don't think you are too impulsive.
Psychologists recommend that children over 4 years of age need no more than 5 sets of clothing per season to fully meet their needs; at the same time, no more than 3 pairs of shoes.
Some mothers will say: "My child is still young, 5 sets are not enough!" That can be less, meet the actual needs can be!
Neat rooms allow children to concentrate on playing and exploring. On the contrary, living in a space full of toys and clothes makes it easier for children to feel depressed or angry and lacks patience.
"Many are confused, but at least are clear," except that in addition to clothes, shoes, and toys, when we provide other materials for children, we should also follow the principle of less and better, so that each item can be used to its full potential, so as to truly give Children bring joy and satisfaction!
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